Tuesday, October 26, 2010

The Woman In Your Life

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with
these facts as well.


Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;


One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;



One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or
your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a
system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary
achievements.



One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost
as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;



One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people
who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your
family ,name



One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while
you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances,
environment and that kitchen



One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and
cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are,
maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain;
to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want
to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her;
and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if
she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;



One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even
men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and
yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your
irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent
insecurities;



Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise



One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just
like yours, are to be met;



One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most
important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you
just help her some and trust her;



One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she
knows in your entire house - your support, your sensitivities and most
importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.



Treating her with respect, caring about her well-being and happiness, showing her that she matters. It means being faithful to her, honest with her, being there for her. It means going the extra mile to show her that you're thinking about her.Treat the woman in your life with respect. It means putting her in high regard no matter who she is and where she came from



But not many guys understand this......


Please appreciate "HER"..................

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