Jadoo Ki Jhappi ........ :))

It's so much easier to express anger than love.

The minute you see your child doing

something out of line, you don't hesitate

before telling him to stop in a firm voice,

or before losing your temper.

We are always ready to shell out feelings of

frustration and indignation but when it comes

to looking at our loved ones and telling

them how deeply we care, we draw a blank.

IF we hate someone, everyone knows

it but if we love someone, we never dare

to express our feeling. Sometime even

the loved one doesn't knows about it.

In our relationships with spouse, children,

siblings, friends we never express our

feeling of love. We presume that

they know I love them,

care about them so whats

need of over reaction.

We need 4 hugs a day for survival.

We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance.

We need 12 hugs a day for growth

You may laugh off the predilection

of the psychiatry community in the USA..

But "Touch is an important component

of attachment as it creates bonds

between two individuals

Hugging is also a part of Reiki,

the currently popular touch therapy

based on the transfer of energy.

The area of touch is much larger in

the case of hugging and the contact

is much more intimate,

so the effects are subtler.

Indeed, many spiritual gurus,

such as Mata Amritanandmayi,

hug their disciples a lot,

perhaps to pass on the divine energy

Reaching out and touching someone,

and holding him tight—is a way of saying

you care. Its effects are immediate:

for both, the hugger and the person

being hugged, feel good. Hugging is

healthy, for the body and the soul.

Hugging is hygienic. Hugging won't

give you AIDS and it won't increase

the population. It boosts self-esteem

and brings about a sense of security

in a way no word can. Hugging reaches

inside and touches your soul.

The world may heal a bit if hugging

increases, so do your bit. Get your body into

action. Start hugging. That what

Munnai Bhai wanted to teach by his

"c". So lets start from today only.

Pyar baantey chalo………..

And always remember,

the person who is the hardest

to hug is usually the one who

needs it the most

 

The simplest and the most powerful

way to show ur love is HUG.

Try to recollect the last time you

hugged somebody or somebody

hugged you. In all likelihood,

it was too long ago. Worse,

the answer may be 'never' if you are

the kind who flinches from

physical contact. So

what are we missing out on?

regards

KULDEEP RAM

10 strange facts about kissing .....!!

Think you know a thing or two about kissing? You probably do. But the facts below are so off the beaten path, well bet you dont know them all and they could come in handy. Not only could they provide some steamy Did you know chit chat, but theyll help you see all the benefits a satisfying lip lock can bring into your life. Happy smooching!

1. Two out of every three couples turn their heads to the right when they kiss.

2. A simple peck uses two muscles; a passionate kiss, on the other hand, uses all 34 muscles in your face. Now thats a rigorous workout!

3. Like fingerprints or snowflakes, no two lip impressions are alike.

4. Kissing is good for what ails you. Research shows that the act of smooching improves our skin, helps circulation, prevents tooth decay, and can even relieve headaches.

5. The average person spends 336 hours of his or her life kissing.

6. Ever wonder how an came to represent a kiss? Starting in the Middle Ages, people who could not read used an X as a signature. They would kiss this mark as a sign of sincerity. Eventually, the X came t represent the kiss itself.

7. Talk about a rush! Kissing releases the same neurotransmitters in our brains as parachuting, bungee jumping, and running.

8. The average woman kisses 29 men before she gets married.

9. Men who kiss their partners before leaving for work average higher incomes than those who dont.

10. The longest kiss in movie history was between Jane Wyman and Regis Tommey in the 1941 film, Youre in the Army Now. It lasted 3 minutes and 5 seconds. So if youve beaten that record, its time to celebrate!

Falling In And Out Of Love

When I say I love you I do
But this with you will not do
I need someone I can lean on
Someone I can count on too

Yes you are there sometimes
For that I am grateful to you
But I need someone there full time
And that you can not do

You told me once you loved me
That I could believe in you
I was there when you needed someone
Where were you when I needed someone, too?

The time has come for me to let go
Never to expect you to care again
People may come and people may go
But my love will never end

12 Ways To Know That You Love Someone?

TWELVE:
You talk with him/her late at night and when you go to bed you still think of him/her.

TEN:
You don't feel Ok when he/she is far away.
NINE:
You smile when you hear his/her voice.
EIGHT:
When you look at him/her,you do not see other people around you.You see only him/her.
SIX:
He/She is everything you want to think.
FIVE:
You realise that you smile every time you look at him/her.
FOUR:
You would do anything to see him/her.
THREE:
While you have been reading this, there was a person in your mind all the time.
TWO:
You've been so busy thinking of that person that you didn't notice that number SEVEN is missing.
ONE:
You are going to check above if that's true and now you are silently laughing to yourself.

NOW MAKE A WISH! YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT THE MOST....... ALMOST THERE!ELEVEN:
You walk really slowly when you are with him/her.

The heart of a friend ......!!

 

The heart of a friend
is a beautiful thing,
so precious and so rare;
for the seeds of love take root within,
to create a garden fair.

There's some healing magic
in a true friend's smile,
that conjurs a bit of hope
and makes life seem worthwhile.
Even if the day brings bad news
with many burdens to bear,
they all seem a little lighter,
from a true friend's loving care.
The heart of a friend
is a lovely gift sent from God above,
blessed seeds that sprout and grow
into blossoms of faith and love.

And I want you to know,
that your friendship is something
I'll always treasure,
beyond gold,
beyond success,
beyond earthly measure.

A Friend Most True.....!!

A Friend Most True....by Wendy Hinson

I need to know if youre my true friend,
will you be by my side until the end?
Can I tell you my secrets deep,
and trust them in your heart youll keep?

We are neither of us without our flaws,
can you accept mine as I will yours?
I’ll be a shoulder to cry on when youre blue,
will you be there for me when I need you?

No matter how busy I will make time for you,
if you are busy will you make time for me too?
I will take your hand and comfort your tears,
will you hold me and soothe my fears?

I will give you joy and many warm smiles,
can we share that even across many miles?
I will not forget whats important to you,
will you remember whats important to me too?

With you my most favorite things Ill share,
If only I know do you truly care?
If you can accept me as I do you,
then I will know you are a friend most true.

F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P IS A PRICELESS GIFT

 

FRIENDSHIP IS A PRICELESS GIFT


THAT CANNOT BE BOUGHT OR SOLD


BUT ITS VALUE IS FAR GREATER


THAN THE MOUNTAIN MADE OF GOLD


FOR GOLD IS COLD & LIFELESS


IT CAN NEITHER SEE NOR HEAR


& IN THE TIME OF TROUBLE


IT IS POWER LESS 2 CHEER--


IT HAS NO EARS 2 LISTEN


NOR HEART 2 UNDERSTAND


IT CANNOT BRING U CONFORT


OR REACH OUT A HELPING HAND


SO WHEN U ASK


GOD FOR A GIFT


BE THANKFUL IF HE SENDS


NOT DIAMONDS, PEARLS OR RICHES


BUT THE LOVE OF REAL TRUE FRIENDS

I WILL NEVER LET YOU GO

MY L;OVE

Deep inside my soul is aching
Longing for your touch
Inside my chest my heart is breaking
I'm missing you so much.


You just don't know how much I love you
How much I really care
My feelings are strong and oh so true
This kind of love is rare.

A life without you is not complete
I'm so empty inside
I long for the day we will be together
And no longer have to hide.

Express Your Love ......!!

Express Your Love ......!!

When U Were Only 5 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U...
U Asked Me: "What Is It?"
When U Were 15 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U....
U Blushed.. U Look Down And Smile..
When U Were 20 Yrs Old, vinod Said I Love U....
U Put Ur Head On My Shoulder And Hold My Hand.. Afraid That I Might Dissapear..
When U Were 25 Yrs Old, vinod Said I Love U....
U Prepare Breakfast And Serve It In Front Of Me, And Kiss My Forhead N
Said : "U Better Be Quick, Is's Gonna Be Late.."

When U Were 30 Yrs Old, vinod Said I Love U....
U Said: "If U Really Love Me, Please Come Back Early After Work.."
When U Were 40 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U....
U Were Cleaning The Dining Table And Said: "Ok Dear, But It's Time For U To Help Our Child With His/Her Revision.."
When U Were 50 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U....
U Were Knitting And U Laugh At Me..

When U Were 60 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U....
U Smile At Me..
When U Were 70 Yrs Old. I Said I Love U....
We Sitting On The Rocking Chair With Our Glasses On.. I'm Reading Your Love Letter That U Sent To Me 50 Yrs Ago..With Our Hand Crossing Together..
When U Were 80 Yrs Old, U Said U Love Me!
I Didn't Say Anything But Cried..

That Day Must Be The Happiest Day Of vinod's Life! Because U Said U Love Me!!!!!!!

Please Express your Love & Appreciate Your Loved Ones.. Say "I Love You" To Them When U Have The Chance Now!!! Now!!! Now!!!

I NEED YOU NOW

My friend, I need you now-

Please take me by the hand.

Stand by me in my hour of need,

Take time to understand.

Take my hand, dear friend,

And lead me from this place.

Chase away my doubts and fears,

Wipe the tears from off my face.

Friend, I cannot stand alone.

I need your hand to hold,

The warmth of your gentle touch

In my world that's grown so cold.

Please be a friend to me

And hold me day by day.

Because with your loving hand in mine,

I know we'll find the way.

MAGIC OF LOVE(s)

 Love is like magic

And it always will be.

For love still remains

Life's sweet mystery!!

Love works in ways

That are wondrous and strange

And there's nothing in life

That love cannot change!!

Love can transform

The most commonplace

Into beauty and splendor

And sweetness and grace.

Love is unselfish,

Understanding and kind,

For it sees with its heart

And not with its mind!!

Love is the answer

That everyone seeks...

Love is the language,

That every heart speaks.

Love can't be bought,

It is priceless and free,

Love, like pure magic,

Is life's sweet mystery!!

Faithfully..!

Look deep inside me, can you see the flame

It burns so bright, it burns only for you

It will never fade, forever it will always remain

Faithfully it will always be true

Lay your hand on me, feel my heart beat

To your voice, to your gentle caress

This heart is yours with a love so sweet

Faithfully my love you I will always confess

Look into my eyes, where your soul lives

See the emotions stirring that I cant control

Feel its strength, feel the passion it gives

Faithfully I will cherish your soul

Enter my dreams, journey through my mind

And fly with me freely in our own place

Where all our troubles will be left behind

As I faithfully I will hold you in my embrace.

                * I Love You *

How to be ROMANTIC

When in love romance is at the heart of all good relationships, some people may think they or their partner isn't romantic and that may be true but if you are in love then you can be romantic.

Here we will talk through some tips and help on how to be romantic, these are not tips like a picnic on the Eiffel tower but more serious romantic gestures that you can do everyday.

Understand that romance is not exclusive to women, men who are romantic have far greater chances of success while dating, also if you already are in a relationship romance will help to keep your other half happy.

Tell your partner you love them, this can be difficult for some people but doing this will make your partner feel special and surprised when you do say it.

Try to spend time with your partner, if you have a busy schedule then just making an hour free for lunch now and then will allow you to have time to chat and be together. Every now and then look to spend a day together and do something you both enjoy.

When talking to each other try to look at your partner and hold their gaze while having conversations.

If you have been together a year or 50 years, keep being romantic, romance should never end just because you have been together for a long time.

Try not to be together all the time, you should both enjoy time apart to see friends or even to just relax, this will make the times when you see each other even more meaningful.

Use candles, candles during dinner in the evening helps to set the mood, sunsets are also particularly romantic.

When trying to be romantic at a romantic dinner etc you should try to look your best, this will show that you have made a lot of effort.

When given the opportunity, dancing together can be very romantic.

Occasionally buy small gifts that have a sentimental effect, put good thought into the gift, it really doesn't have to be expensive.

Background music during a meal is very romantic.

You could create your own cards for occasions instead of buying them, it shows you have put thought and time into it.

Laugh together, do things that make you both laugh.

Hold hands and show affection to your partner, hugging also has a great effect

Falling In love with you

I'm thinking about you,

a little more each day.

Holding on a little tighter,

to all the words you say.

Every day I miss you,

more than the day before.

Our time together I love;

and I'm wanting even more.

I used to dream of you,

as I lay in bed each night.

Now you are my dreams,

even through the daylight.

I felt a flutter in my heart,

whenever I saw you online.

Today my heart is glowing;

filled with a brilliant shine.

I was shy to tell everything,

which I was feeling inside.

Now I feel so free to share,

with nothing I want to hide.

I thought you were special,

from the moment we met.

And each day a little further,

into my heart you would get.

I could always feel a bond,

everytime our hearts shared.

When our souls bonded also,

I realized how much I cared.

I find my heart needing yours;

cherishing all that you do.

Now, I'm not scared to admit,

I am falling in love with you.

WIFE Defined by Some Wonderful Persons

DavidBissonette

                 When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her.

        

Sacha Guitry

                After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin; they just can't face each other, but still they stay together.

        

Socrates

               By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.

Anonymous

              Woman inspires us to great things, and prevents us from achieving them.

Dumas

              The great question... which I have not been able to answer... is, "What does a woman want?

Sigmund Freud

              I had some words with my wife, and she had some paragraphs with me.

Anonymous

             "Some people ask the secret of our long marriage..

    We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays."

Sam Kinison

            "There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic banking. It's called marriage."

James Holt McGavran

            "I've had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me, and the second one didn't."

Patrick Murray

            Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming

    1. Whenever you're wrong, admit it,

    2. Whenever you're right, shut up.

Nash

           The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it once...

Anonymous

            You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to.

Henny Youngman

            My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met.

Rodney Dangerfield

            A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.

Anonymous

            A man inserted an 'ad' in the classifieds: "Wife wanted".. Next day he received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: "You can have mine."

Anonymous

             First Guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!"

            Second Guy: "You're lucky, mine's still alive."