Tuesday, January 18, 2011

JUST BECAUSE......!!



Just because no one has been fortunate enough 
to realize what a gold mine you are, 
doesn't mean you shine any less. 

Just because no one has been smart enough 
to figure out that you can't be topped, 
doesn't stop you from being the best. 

Just because no one has come along 
to share your life, 
doesn't mean that day isn't coming. 

Just because no one has made 
this race worthwhile, 
doesn't give you permission to stop running. 

Just because no one has realized 
how much of a woman you are, 
doesn't mean they can effect your femininity. 

Just because no one has come 
to take the loneliness away, 
doesn't mean you have to settle for a lower quality. 

Just because no one has shown up 
who can love you on your level, 
doesn't mean you have to sink to theirs. 

Just because you deserve 
the very best there is, 
doesn't mean that life is always fair. 

Just because God 
is still preparing your king, 
doesn't mean that you're not already a queen. 

Just because your situation 
doesn't seem to be progressing right now, 
doesn't mean you need to change a thing. 

Keep shining, 
Keep running, 
Keep hoping, 
Keep praying, 

Keep being exactly what you are already; 
Complete!

Who am I ......??


You may know me.
I'm your constant companion.
I'm you greatest helper.
I'm your heaviest burden.

I will push you onward or drag you down to failure.
I am at your command.
Half the tasks you do can be turned over to me.
I'm able to do them quickly, and
I'm able to do them the same every time.

I'm easily managed.. all you have
to do is to be firm, with me.
Show me exactly how you want it done.
After a few lessons, I will do it automatically.

I' am the servant of all great men and women.
And of course the servant of all the failures as well.
I've made all the great individuals
who have ever been great.
And I've made all the losers too.


I work with all the precision of a computer,
and the intelligence of a human being.
You may run me for profit or you may run me to ruin.
It makes no difference to me.

Make me a strong part of your life.
Be easy with me and I will destroy you.
Be firm with me and I'll put the world at your feet.
Who am I?

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Jadoo Ki Jhappi ........ :))

It's so much easier to express anger than love.
The minute you see your child doing
something out of line, you don't hesitate
before telling him to stop in a firm voice,
or before losing your temper.
We are always ready to shell out feelings of
frustration and indignation but when it comes
to looking at our loved ones and telling
them how deeply we care, we draw a blank.
IF we hate someone, everyone knows
it but if we love someone, we never dare
to express our feeling. Sometime even
the loved one doesn't knows about it.
In our relationships with spouse, children,
siblings, friends we never express our
feeling of love. We presume that
they know I love them,
care about them so whats
need of over reaction.






We need 4 hugs a day for survival.
We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance.
We need 12 hugs a day for growth




You may laugh off the predilection
of the psychiatry community in the USA..
But "Touch is an important component
of attachment as it creates bonds
between two individuals




Hugging is also a part of Reiki,
the currently popular touch therapy
based on the transfer of energy.
The area of touch is much larger in
the case of hugging and the contact
is much more intimate,
so the effects are subtler.





Indeed, many spiritual gurus,
such as Mata Amritanandmayi,
hug their disciples a lot,
perhaps to pass on the divine energy



Reaching out and touching someone,
and holding him tight—is a way of saying
you care. Its effects are immediate:
for both, the hugger and the person
being hugged, feel good. Hugging is
healthy, for the body and the soul.
Hugging is hygienic. Hugging won't
give you AIDS and it won't increase
the population. It boosts self-esteem
and brings about a sense of security
in a way no word can. Hugging reaches
inside and touches your soul.
The world may heal a bit if hugging
increases, so do your bit. Get your body into
action. Start hugging. That what
Munnai Bhai wanted to teach by his
"c". So lets start from today only.
Pyar baantey chalo………..




And always remember,
the person who is the hardest
to hug is usually the one who
needs it the most




 
The simplest and the most powerful
way to show ur love is HUG.
Try to recollect the last time you
hugged somebody or somebody
hugged you. In all likelihood,
it was too long ago. Worse,
the answer may be 'never' if you are
the kind who flinches from
physical contact. So
what are we missing out on?


regards
KULDEEP RAM

10 strange facts about kissing .....!!



Think you know a thing or two about kissing? You probably do. But the facts below are so off the beaten path, well bet you dont know them all and they could come in handy. Not only could they provide some steamy Did you know chit chat, but theyll help you see all the benefits a satisfying lip lock can bring into your life. Happy smooching!

1. Two out of every three couples turn their heads to the right when they kiss.

2. A simple peck uses two muscles; a passionate kiss, on the other hand, uses all 34 muscles in your face. Now thats a rigorous workout!

3. Like fingerprints or snowflakes, no two lip impressions are alike.

4. Kissing is good for what ails you. Research shows that the act of smooching improves our skin, helps circulation, prevents tooth decay, and can even relieve headaches.

5. The average person spends 336 hours of his or her life kissing.
6. Ever wonder how an came to represent a kiss? Starting in the Middle Ages, people who could not read used an X as a signature. They would kiss this mark as a sign of sincerity. Eventually, the X came t represent the kiss itself.

7. Talk about a rush! Kissing releases the same neurotransmitters in our brains as parachuting, bungee jumping, and running.

8. The average woman kisses 29 men before she gets married.

9. Men who kiss their partners before leaving for work average higher incomes than those who dont.

10. The longest kiss in movie history was between Jane Wyman and Regis Tommey in the 1941 film, Youre in the Army Now. It lasted 3 minutes and 5 seconds. So if youve beaten that record, its time to celebrate!