Wednesday, September 8, 2010

And what do you know about the lies?

- 81% of people said "harmless lie" every day




- Most people lie 3 times in 10 minutes of conversation






- Following a review of 142 studies, during which 19,801 people (many of whom had experience lies in the recognition of his work) was assessed, lying or not 2,945 people, lies gently was recognized only 54% of cases, only slightly more than 50% that you can dial simply by guessing "yes-no






- 2% of people think that lying is sometimes necessary






- 65% of people think that often / sometimes OK to lie to not hurt someone's feelings






- 44% of people think that often / sometimes possible to exaggerate the events in the story to make it interesting






- 37% of people think that often / sometimes you can lie about his age






- Depressive people are more honest with themselves than the mentally healthy, and when they recover, they become less fair






- 98% of teens say they lie to their parents






- 98% of teens say that trust is very important in personal relationships. 96-98% say that lying is immoral






- 47% of teens say that illegal downloading of music is acceptable, and only 5% considered acceptable stealing from shop






- During the experiment, 32 young people were divided into 2 groups - high and low social status, based on their activity, reported by the parents. Children of high social level lie better. Teens lie better than younger






- 75% of students admit that they become "serial liars * when it comes to saving money or a job






- 40% of parents believe that is normal sometimes lie to children about their own bad behavior in the past






- 68% of women lie about their weight, when the rent on the right






- 91% of women say that the older they become, the easier take themselves, and the lower lying






- 44% of people easier to lie by e-mail, than in manuscript form. During the study, 48 students had to divide $ 89 between themselves and another fictional one group that did not know about the amount of money, but I knew that it varies between $ 5-100 and should decide to accept the proposal or not. When students reported the amount of e-mail, 92% lied when handwritten - 64%






- 15% of employees were caught in a lie directly in the workplace






- 16% of people ever lied to justify "I call on another line" or "I call you back"






- According to the experiment conducted in Australia, 73% of doctors said that washed his hands, and only 9% actually did so;






- 29% of people who are in close relations, acknowledged that lie to their partners about their spending money






- 33% of women lie about their spending money, as well as 26% of men






- 1 out of 10 people had lied during the motor to reduce the contribution






- 15% of people vozrata 18-20 years admit they were wrong to their partners, 11% aged 21-24 years are recognized in the same






- 22% of men say they do not want to call their number of sexual partners






- 17% of men and women aged 18-24 years reported to their sexual partner about the presence of host of sexually transmitted diseases






- 61% of women think that is normal if a man is lying about their appearance






- 26% of men and 9% of women believe adultery to be justified, if their partner is no longer interested in sex






- Betrayal in varying degrees, is the cause of 54% of divorces






- 48% of women say that is normal, when their partner is lying about his attraction to other women






- 39% of women say that is normal when a man is lying about the woman that if she was good in bed


A To Z life Thoughts

Avoid Negative Thoughts, People, Things and Habits.

Believe in yourself.

Consider things from every angle and others points of view.

Dare to Dream and Dream Big

Energy, Excitement and Enthusiasm is in your blood.

Family and Friends are hidden treasures ; enjoy these riches.

Give more than you planned to.

Have a good sense of humour.

Ignore Criticism, Ridicule and Discouragement from others.

Jump on Problems because they are Opportunities in disguise.

Keep up the good work however hard it may seem.

Love yourself, just as you are.

Make Impossibility a Possibility.


Never lie, cheat or steal, always strike a fair deal.

Open your eyes and see things as they really are.

Prefect Practice makes you perfect.

Quitters never Win and Winners never Quit.

Reward yourself for every small success and achievement.

Stop Wasting your Time and Procrastinating important Goals.

Take control of your Life and your Goals.

Understand so that you could Understood.


Visualize your Goals and Dreams everyday.


Win over your own weaknesses and make them as your Strengths.

Accelerate your efforts



Yes Yes Yes, Yes you Can and You Will


Zap your Stress and Enjoy your Life..

Women in the Lap of "A" "B" "C"

A says - Woman is attractive Flower

B says - Woman is Beautiful Gift

C says - Woman is great source of Comfort

D says - Woman has a sweet Dialect

E says - Eastern or Western, woman is the Worthy

F says - Woman is central Figure of Family

G says - Woman always glitters with the rays of her Partner

H says - Woman has Holy Spirits

I says - Woman has basic institution in her Lap

J says - Woman is a Full of Joy

K says - Woman is Head of Kisses

L says - Woman is Lovely Thing

M says - Woman is symbol of Modesty

N says - Nails increase the Beauty of Woman

O says - Woman is an Pretty Ornament

P says - Woman is Princess

Q says - Woman is Queen

R says - Woman is Rare Gift

S says - Woman is a main source of survival the Human Being

T says - Woman has true Spirits of Love

U says - Woman is an Peaceful Umbrella

V says - Woman is valley of Love

W says - Woman is Wafer

X says - Woman has Sweet Kisses

Y says - Woman is your Jewelery

Z says - Woman has a great Zeal..

PRINCIPAL OF LIFE

* Winning isn't everything. But wanting to win is.

* You would achieve more, if you don't mind who gets the credit.

* When everything else is lost, the future still remains.

* Don't fight too much. Or the enemy would know your art of war.

* The only job you start at the top is when you dig a grave.

* If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for everything.

* If you do little things well, you'll do big ones better.

* Only thing that comes to you without effort is old age.

* You won't get a second chance to make the first impression.

* Only those who do nothing do not make mistakes.

* Never take a problem to your boss unless you have a solution.

* If you are not failing you're not taking enough risks.

* Don't try to get rid of bad temper by losing it.

* If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.

* Those who don't make mistakes usually don't make anything

* There are two kinds of failures. Those who think and never do,

and those who do and never think.

* Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win.

* All progress has resulted from unpopular decisions.

* Change your thoughts and you change your world.

* Understanding proves intelligence, not the speed of the learning.

* There are two kinds of fools in this world. Those who give advise

and those who don't take it.

* The best way to kill an idea is to take it to a meeting.

* Management is doing things right. Leadership is doing the right

things.

* Friendship founded on business is always better than business

founded on friendship.. ...

I know I miss you

I know if you could hear me you would

Say there are always two sides of a story
You're so right, here's mine
I cannot live without you


Love was never easy,
But leaving you was hard,
And time didn't heal my wounds at all
I wonder, if you know what I'm going through


All the lonely times that we're apart


I miss you, oh I miss you
I'm gonna need you more and more each day
I miss you, more than words can say
More than words can ever say



Saying sorry was a question of my pride
Pride can push aside a loving heart,
In the end emotion has ruled my mind
And I'm asking for a second start


Maybe I've said words that really didn't
Mean, but I know, every day
When a man does wrong
I know I miss you

Some Nice Quotes

There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.

Many people will walk in and out of your life,
But only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.


To handle yourself, use your head;
To handle others, use your heart.


Anger is only one letter short of danger.


Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people.


Beautiful young people are accidents of nature,
But beautiful old people are works of art.

Benefits of Smiling!

1. Smiling Makes Us Attractive- People are spending millions on cosmetic products and procedures to make them look better.If you want to look better, try adding a genuine smile. Its cheaper and mush more attractive.The muscles we use to smile lift the face, making a person appear younger. Don't go for a face lift, just try smiling your way through the day -- you'll look younger and feel better.

2. Smiling Changes Our Mood-Next time you are feeling down, try putting on a smile. There's a good chance you mood will change for the better. Smiling can trick the body into helping you change your mood.

3. Smiling Is Contagious-When someone is smiling they lighten up the room, change the moods of others, and make things happier. A smiling person brings happiness with them.

4. Smiling Relieves Stress-Stress can really show up in our faces. Smiling helps to prevent us from looking tired, worn down, and overwhelmed. When you are stressed, take time to put on a smile. The stress should be reduced and you'll be better able to take action.Smiling helps to promote release of a "feel good" group of hormones called endorphins. These are the same group of hormones responsible for the runners high you hear so much about. If you don't have time to get to the gym for a hard run, try adding a smile to boost these natural, stress relieving hormones.

5. Smiling Boosts Your Immune System-Smiling helps the immune system to work better. When you smile, immune function improves possibly because you are more relaxed. Prevent the flu and colds by smiling.

6. Smiling Lowers Your Blood Pressure-When you smile, there is a measurable reduction in your blood pressure. Give it a try if you have a blood pressure monitor at home. Sit for a few minutes, take a reading. Then smile for a minute and take another reading while still smiling. Do you notice a difference?

7. Smiling is medication-Studies have shown that smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers, and serotonin. Together these three make us feel good. Smiling is a natural drug and leads to a healthier immune system.Various studies conducted over the years have shown that smiling can boost the functioning of the immune system. This may help to reduce your risk of developing everything from the common cold to chronic diseases such as cancer. Could there be a less expensive medicine than this?

8. A smile inspires others-When you smile you also send a positive message that can potentially change someone else's mood for the better. The person you graced with your smile may go on to pass the kindness to someone else. Who knows how far your original smile will travel?

9. Smiling promotes Success -Smiling people appear more confident, are more likely to be promoted, and more likely to be approached. Put on a smile at meetings and appointments and people will react to you differently. When you smile, you appear confident and capable. Given the choice between two equally qualified job candidates, the smiling candidate is going to be perceived as being more of a team player and easier to work with. Who do you think is more likely to get the job offer?

10. Smiling Helps You Stay Positive-Try this test: Smile. Now try to think of something negative without losing the smile. It's hard. When we smile our body is sending the rest of us a message that "Life is Good!" Stay away from depression, stress and worry by smiling.

I MISS YOU LOT SmN







Some Simplicity 4U

Start the work in the name of God... Do the work with the help of God... Finish the work with thanks to God... because he decides, gives, and makes everything possible.

Past is experience, Present is experiment. Future is expectation!!! Use ur experience in your experiments to get your expectations. Wish u a happy life.

Life is only traveled Once, Today's Moment becomes Tomorrow's memory. Enjoy every moment, good or bad, because the Gift of Life is Life itself...

Love urself, Flirt with ur understanding, Romance with dreams, Get engaged with simplicity, Marry genuiness, Divorce the egos... Thats Good Life...

In the end, only 3 things matter the most: How fully you lived, how deeply you loved & how well you learned to let go of things not meant for you!

So simple is to live; So simple is to love; So simple is to smile; So simple is to win, but so difficult it's to be simple!

Happiness comes not because we do great things, but because we do small things with great love. Be filled with love everyday.

The Lord will change all our defeat into a path for new blessings. Do not think that failure can push us down. Instead it will be changed into a ladder of blessings.

A leaf which falls from a tree goes wherever wind takes it. Be the wind to drive others, not the leaf to be driven by others.

Life is like a fingerprint that can't be changed, so make the best impression with it.

LOVE LETTER BY AN ACCOUNTANT

In the Journal of my heart,
I have written a Journal Entry,
Debiting my love & crediting my affection,
Now partner, you write the Narration.


Your beauty is the Capital of our business,
And your eyes are Stock In Trade,
Now let us enter into a Transaction,
Without providing Depreciation.


Your first love I have already indicated,
On the Ledger Folio column,
Any way, our relations are based on,
Double Entry System.


Our love is Real & Tangible,
Which can be realized,
Interest on the same,
Can be capitalized.


Partner, you are like a Contra Entry,
You are on my Debit Side & Credit Side,
Both at the same time,
Can it be posted into Ledger, that now you decide.


And so my partner now let us Rectify,
All our errors & total the Trial Balance,
Of our affairs & emotions,
Without maintaining any Suspense Account.


And any difference in the Trial Balance,
In the Balance Sheet of our life,
Our children will be Assets & Liabilities,
If they are boys, shall we call them Sundry Debtors?
If they are girls, shall we call them Sundry Creditors?


But if we have a boy & a girl,
Our Balance Sheet will Tally automatically,
And the Auditor will certify like this,
"THE ACCOUNT SHOWS A TRUE & FAIR VIEW OF LOVELY BUSINESS CONDUCTED DURING LIFE'S ACCOUNTS".
YOU ARE............SMN


You are Strong...
When you take your grief
and teach it to smile.

You are Brave...
When you over come your fears
and help others to do the same.
You are Happy...
When you see a flower and
are thankful for the blessing.

You are Loving....
When your own pain does not
blind you to the pain of others.

You are Wise....
When you know the limits
of your wisdom.

You are True....
When you admit there are
times you fool yourself.

You are Alive....
When tomorrow's hope means
more to you then yesterday;s
mistakes.

You are Growing...
When you know what you are
but not what you will become.

You are Free...
When you are in control of yourself
and do not wish to control others.

You are Honorable...
When you find your honor
is to find honer others.

You are Generous...
When you can take as
sweetly as you can give.

You are Humble....
When you do not know
how humble you are.

You are Thoughtful.. .
When you see me as just as i am
and treat me just as you are.

You are Merciful..
When you forgive in others the
faults you condemn in yourself.

You are Beautiful...
When you do not need
a mirror to tell you.

You are Rich...
When you never need
more then whet you have.

You are YOU...
When you are at peace
with who you are not.

20 Keys To A Happy Life

20 Keys To A Happy Life

by Kuldeep Ram

1) Compliment 3 people everyday!
2) Watch a sunrise
3) Be the first to say "hello"
4) Treat everyone as you want to be treated
5) Live beneath your means
6) Forget the Joneses
7) Never give up on anybody - miracles happen!
8) Remember someone's name
9) Be kinder than you have to be
10) Wish not for things, but for wisdom and courage
11) Be tough-minded, but tender hearted
12) Don't forget that a person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated
13) Keep your promises
14) Leave everything better than you found it
15) Show cheerfulness even when you don't feel it
16) Remember that winners do what losers don't want to do
17) Remember that overnight success usually takes 15 years
18) When you arrive at your job in the morning, let the first thing you say brighten everyone's day
19) Don't rain on other people's parades
20) Don't waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them!

REAL FRIEND TEST!

This is GOOD....I expect it back too!

I especially like the last sentence!!!! !!


A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest..


A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself and doesn't feel even the least bit weird shutting your 'beer/Pepsi drawer' with her foot!


A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend shoulder is soggy from your tears..


A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book..


A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.

A simple friend hates it when you call after they've gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.


A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.


A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it!

Friendship

friendship is something above all relations.


it is only friends with whome u can feel easy and happy even without any reason.



u come across many people in your life..

sometimes good and most of the time u meet only bad and selfish people.

but everyone u meet does not become ur friend.



I invited friendship by email on some groups and

i did come across some verry nice and good friends



some were chikky and some were even nasty

but then...it takes everykind of people to make this world na... right ?



in diamond mines and in gold mines.... most of the material is dirt n rubbish

but u do find precious dimond and gold if u focus and work hard.



life men mehnat kabbhi zaya nahi jaati huzoor

harkat men barkat hai



kerni insaan ke haathon men hai

lekin honi to ALLAH hi ki razamandi men hai.



isi liye kehti hun ke dost accha mile ye bhi insaan ki khush naseebi hai.



dosti koi super market ke show-case men rakkhi huwi item nahi

jiske different kind n variations hon ya special offers hon.



jis tareh mohabbat clik ho jati hai

aise hi friendship bhi clik ho jati hai.



darrasal logon ne net per itne dhokhe khaaye hain ki her koi

ab apne saaye se bhi darra huwa hai....

doosri taraf..... many thinks others are like them....... hai na ??



jaise ko taisa janaab

ye to duniya ka asool hai...



aaj ke zamaane men farishton ke par nahi lage hote

aur na hi shaitan ke singh hon ge



hum aur aap ke beech hi aisi maklook mix hai.



jo aap ke saath bura kare wo aap ke liye shaitan hai...... jab ki

jis ki wajeh se aap ka bhala ho wo ALLAH ki taraf se bheja huwa farishta hai.



waise to mein itna zyada likhti bhi nahi kyun ki log bore ho jaate hain

ab to SMS ka zamana hai aur chat ka dastoor jo hai......... ...

zara do char line zyada likh do to logon ko lecture lagne lagta hai.



is liye aaj mein mere is short email per hi apni baat khatam ker rahee hun.



when i needed advice

all my friends were ready to help me

but when i really needed help

they all offerd advice only



with good wishes for all good people

and best wishes for all the other kind of people.